In sy eie woorde...
Oor Hom
OkJaWellNoFine, what's a mind if you can't change it 3-degrees magnetic-north?
We-all know the definition of Crazy - repeating the same thing, expecting a different result. Fact.
....NB - Are you reeeally willing to gamble with the last years of your life trying to find that elusive man-clone - walking on a sweaty beach, staring like an idiot at the moon, and tell you honestly your a$$ is'nt SO big? So howabout a different angle of approach?
I'm ever-optimistic (still here, aren't I?), but also a realist - seeking a woman with just a few (hard to find) traits. 1st become friends, then buddies, then homies - as we remove the stitches at the hip-joint while discovering and develop more similarities - and love will surely creep in. ...Creepy, I know.
....ENTER Pareto's 80/20 principle - if we discover 80% likes, then Live-&-LetLive the 20% agree-to-disagrees - as long as we don't break one-another's speed. And you don't change The PreAgreed GamePlan, like most in my past.
Escape to which Other-World?
- Plan-A (1) was to buy a big-ass 40ft Catamaran and sail "away". So I've been saving many years "determinedly" (Taurus' are'nt stubborn - grin).
- Plan-B of Overlanding with caravan down Central America became a wild-hair up my a$$ for a while - when I missed my financial target at retirement (with many "excuses") of Plan-A (1).
- Plan-A (2) slapped me between the eyes a month ago when I was deep-sea fishing on a pal's boat. I need to be ON the sea, not AT it on a dem beach. So buy a smaller-ass 34ft sailing Catamaran, which I CAN afford.
Uuuh waitaminute, problem w All The Above - I won't/can't do it alone. Alone-anything is'nt as nice/good as with a buddy. And a female-buddy kiss and cook better. There, I said it!
Similar lifestyle applies.
- During a previous cross-Atlantic cruise from CPT to Caribbean, all of us yachties became bored after a few weeks in any given anchorage of sight-see, snorkeling, fishing, shoot-da-breeze, dinner & boardgames everyday with others, etc. Hard to believe of Paradize, but true.
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
So take many off-grid stuff, compact mobile-disco, and inflatable beach-rental "toys" - to keep them-&-us busy IF/WHEN we want to.
...Besides cruisers on yachts at anchor and in marinas - some places also have intrntl young backpackers in cheap Hostels and/or tourists in Resorts. Equally bored after a few days sight-seeing, have a few $s to burn - so our beach-rentals will be a hit. Last time adult/mature/sane (you'd think) yachties were dancing lattie-spoeg-spat on a beach to dem-boring-after-10min Carib steeldrum music.
Top priority - to have an attitude of Team-player, with no ego to prove - like me - to avoid silly fights. Don't bother if your mind-set is You-vs-Him - excluding Gov/Corps/RulePushers.
- Someone who loves a minimalist lifestyle - independent self-sustainable and off-grid as possible. Yet a small silent generatortjiekie, w elect blender for umbrellatjie-sundowners & a dough-kneader / meat-mincer & a H-Duty sewing-mc are all definites.
- Be handy to make-&-do stuff. Did I say I don't have a TV? but vrek oor movies A/H.
- Not afraid to tackle new adventures - stay cool-calm-collect. HA! I worry enuf for 3 - so I've got you covered.
- Willing to relocate far from friends/family - with the expectation for visits. Allow the dem kids to live their own lives, without limiting your own.
- Someone not over-weight (too much) - and not LOOK like some poor-kid's crinkle-cut ol' grand-maw. I'm relatively athletic - albeit with an almost-pregnancy and need a push-up bra. So nature's old-age gravity-pull is heel-OK.
I've learned to do canning of meats-&-fish (and jams). Plus how Not-To peel potato's, as The Chief OnionPeeler & Dishwasher since a kid - and my soups & bredies are better than ol' Sofie's.
- Can you sew w a machine, or willing to learn - simple straight stuff? HA! this mech-design halfassed-eng has a few "solar" off-grid ideas to build.
Wanna meet me, look me in da eyes - to see "if we have a vibe"? Then write me UNTIL we agree & you're willing to visit me in Florida near Daytona Beach.
Wat Sy Vriende Sê
OutsideDaBoxSailor het nog nie enige aanbevelings van vriende af nie.
Oor Hom
Land van Oorsprong: |
Suid-Afrika | |
Ligging: |
Noordelike Voorstede, Kaapstad & Skiereiland, Suid-Afrika | |
Geslag: |
Manlik | |
Ouderdom: |
68 | |
Sterreteken: |
Bul | |
Lengte: |
183cm (6' 0.0") | |
Liggaamstipe: |
'n Paar ekstra kilo's | |
Uiterlike: |
Gemiddeld | |
Haarkleur: |
Blond | |
Oogkleur: |
Blou | |
Ras: |
Blank / Kaukasiese | |
Huistaal: |
Afrikaans | |
Ander Tale: |
Engels | |
Geloof: |
Christen / Protestant | |
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enkellopend | |
Opsoek na: |
Net aanlynvriende; Aktiwiteitsmaats; Vriende; Oop vir moontlikhede; Langtermyn | |
Het Kinders: |
Ja, bly soms by my | |
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Nee | |
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Eet meeste kosse | |
Rookgewoontes: |
Gereeld | |
Drinkgewoontes: |
Sosiale drinker | |
Geleerdheid: |
Tegniese Diploma | |
Beroep: |
Afgetree | |
Inkomste: |
Genoeg |
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
Land van Oorsprong: |
Suid-Afrika | ||
Ligging: |
Enige plek in die Wêreld | ||
Geslag: |
Vroulik | ||
Ouderdomskaal: |
60 - 65 | ||
Sterreteken: |
Enige | ||
Lengte: |
Enige | ||
Liggaamstipe: |
Slank; Atleties | ||
Uiterlike: |
Enige | ||
Haarkleur: |
Enige | ||
Oogkleur: |
Enige | ||
Het 'n Foto: |
Oorwegend belangrik | ||
Ras: |
Latyns / Hispanis; Blank / Kaukasiese | ||
Huistaal: |
Afrikaans; Engels | ||
Ander Tale: |
Spaans | ||
Geloof: |
Enige | ||
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enige | ||
Het Kinders: |
Enige | ||
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Enige | ||
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Enige | ||
Rookgewoontes: |
Enige | ||
Drinkgewoontes: |
Enige | ||
Geleerdheid: |
Enige | ||
Beroep: |
Afgetree | ||
Inkomste: |
Genoeg; Gemaklik |
- Glad nie belangrik nie
- Effens belangrik
- Redelik belangrik
- Oorwegend belangrik
- Nieonderhandelbaar
Meer Oor Hom
Haarstyl: |
Kort; Reguit |
Sig: |
Ek dra soms bril |
Gesigshare: |
Ek is skoongeskeer |
Liggaamshare: |
Lig |
Liggaamskuns: |
Ek het geen |
Sin vir Humor: |
Skerp sin vir humor |
Intelligensie: |
So effens stadig |
Regeer deur: |
Die verstand |
Partytjie Gedrag: |
Die lewe van die partytjie |
Persoonlikheidstrekke: |
Ekstrovert; Intelligent; Laf; Naïef; Optimisties; Realisties; Snaaks; Stabiel; Uitdagend; Uitgesproke; Versigtig; Wild & Uitbundig |
Gewaardeerde Kwaliteite: |
Eerlikheid; Getrouheid; Hoop; Humor; Nederigheid; Selfbeheersing; Toewyding; Vriendelikheid |
Modebewustheid: |
Buitelug (Ek is gewoonlik aangetrek vir die veld) |
Gunsteling Kleredrag: |
My swembroek / bikini |
Gunsteling Kleur: |
Blou |
Afspraak Aktiwiteite: |
'n Fliek; 'n Piekniek in die park; Uitgaan vir dans; Ontmoet vir koffie; Ontmoet vir drankies; Stap op die strand |
Musiek Voorkeure: |
Dans / Disko; Reggae; Rock |
Lees: |
Ek lief dit |
Boeke: |
Selfhelp |
TV Gewoontes: |
Ek het nie 'n televisie nie |
TV Programme: |
Fliekkanale |
Fliek Gereeldheid: |
Ek wag vir flieks om op DVD of aanlyn uit te kom. |
Fliek Voorkeure: |
Aksie; Komedie; Oorlog; Westerse; Wetenskapsfiksie |
Belangstellings: |
Bordspeletjies; Gesonde leefstyl; Kaartspeletjies; Kookkuns; Naaldwerk; Tuinmaak |
Sport Betrokkenheid: |
'n Aktiewe deelnemer |
Sport: |
Kampering; Kanovaart; Kegelbal; Krygskunde; Lyfbranderry; Lyn- / Rolskaats; Pluimbal; Roei; Rolbal; Seil; Skaak; Skubaduik; Snoeker; Snorkelduik; Stap; Surfski / Kajak; Tafeltennis; Veerpyltjies; Vlieërbranderry; Vlugbal; Witwater-kanovaart |
Kook: |
Ek hou nogal van kook |
Kookkuns: |
Asiatiese Fusie; Indies; Maak nie saak nie; Seekos; Soesji; Suid-Afrikaans |
Uiteet: |
Ek eet net op spesiale geleenthede uit |
Lewenspas: |
Georganiseerd |
Tyd by die Werk: |
Ek HET 'n bed in my kantoor! |
Tydverdryf keuses: |
Stokperdjie beoefen |
Tyd Aanlyn: |
Ek is meer aanlyn as van lyn af |
Gebruik Dwelms: |
Nooit |
Familie Grootte: |
Ek het 'n broer en 'n suster |
Familie Nouheid: |
Ons is gemiddeld |
Verhoudingstipes: |
Ek is net enkellopend |
Gewillig Om Te Verhuis: |
Glad nie |
Diere: |
Ek hou van hulle goedgaar ;) |
Troeteldiere (Hou van): |
Voël(s); Kat(te); Visse |
Prikkels: |
Selfgeldend; Dans; Flankering; Intelligensie; Liefde toon in die publiek; Naakbaai |
Afsitters: |
Mag; Sensasiesoeker |
Werk Verwagtinge: |
Die Baas in die pad steek |
Godsdienstige Bywoning: |
Selde |
Droomhuis: |
Ander |
Politiek: |
Ek het geen belangstelling in politiek nie |
Aftreeplanne: |
Die sewe oseane aandurf op 'n seiljag |
Gevoel omtrent die gebruik van Maatjie.com: |
Hoopvol; Optimisties |
Eerlikheid: |
Uiters |